I believe in New Year’s resolutions, if only to focus my mind on the kind of person I want to aspire to be. (My friend Caryn has written a great article in praise of resolutions.) Typically, I focus on my shortcomings — things I want to improve.
This year, I thought I would try for a more balanced approach, that looks at the major areas of my life. For me, the main areas are: Body, Mind, Spirit, Work, Family, Music, and Community (not necessarily in that order).
My overall plan is to scan each of these areas periodically, just to check in with how I am doing. I realize that, at different times, I will have energy in different areas. Over time, if I can push ahead in all these areas, I think I will have a balanced life.
Here are the areas I want to focus on this year, along with concrete ideas of what I hope to do in each area.
Body
- Do P90X again
- Continue regular yoga practice
- Improve diet; eat more often
Mind
- Improve my conversational French
- Learn something new that takes concentration and commitment over time
Spirit
- Pray every day
- Have a discussion that touches on values with another person at least once per day
- Seek out and follow direction
Work
- Improve deliveries by completing work ahead of deadline and do deeper review prior to submission
- Seek out colleagues’ input more, and earlier
- Do the hardest, or least pleasant, things first in the day
Family
- Adhere to regular family dinner time; cook at least four nights per week
- Instigate and create more opportunities for family activities
Creativity
- Write a new song each month (at least)
- Practice guitar more regularly
- Write something every day
Community
- Take on a service position in a community organization
- Attend more community functions
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